Finding Your Perfect Sleep Position: A Guide to Better Rest and Pain Management
- Julie Marciniak
- Aug 29
- 5 min read
Updated: Sep 27

In our continual search for maintaining good health, we often focus on diet, exercise, and alternative therapies while neglecting one crucial factor: sleep.
Despite its significant impact on overall well-being, many people can’t seem to get the quality or quantity of sleep they need. Sleep is even more critical for those dealing with chronic pain, as poor sleep can exacerbate pain levels an hinder the body's natural healing processes. Research has shown that sleep disturbances and chronic pain are closely linked, creating a cycle where inadequate rest worsens pain, and increase pain makes restful sleep more difficult(source).
One major aspect of improving sleep that often gets overlooked is sleeping position. While there's no "better" sleeping position, understanding how each affects each one affects your body can be valuable knowledge if you're managing pain or recovering from injuries. Injuries or surgery may require a temporary change in sleeping position, but knowing the benefits and drawback of different positions and how to adjust to them will help you find better rest and recover faster.
Another crictical factor is ensuring muscles relax in a neutral or slightly stretched position rather than a fully flexed or shortened one. Sleeping in a flexed posture can contribute to muscle cramps and exacerbate discomfort. So, let's explore different sleep postions and the pros and cons of each to help you find the best way to rest and recover.
Side Sleeping: Embracing Comfort and Alignment
Side sleeping is the most popular sleep position among adults, and for a good reason. This posture offers several benefits, including:
Spinal Alignment:Â When done correctly, side sleeping helps maintain the spine's natural curvature, reducing the risk of back and neck pain.
Acid Reflux Relief:Â Slightly elevating the head may prevent stomach acid from flowing back into the esophagus, alleviating acid reflux symptoms.
Reduced Airway Obstruction:Â Side sleeping can keep the airway open, decreasing the likelihood of snoring and sleep apnea.
Improper alignment for side sleepers such as incorrectly supporting the legs, head, and neck—can lead to discomfort and can exacerbate existing pain.
To optimize side sleeping:
Use a firm pillow to support your head and neck.
Keep a pillow between your knees and ankles to maintain hip alignment and reduce pressure on the lower back. This tip works well with king-sized pillows.
Consider a softer bed as it allows for the curves of the hips and cradles the shoulders.
Avoid sleeping in a deep fetal position with knees towards chest, which can shorten muscles possibly contirbuting to tightness.
Back Sleeping: A Balance of Comfort and Snoring
Back sleeping, though less common than side sleeping, has its own set of advantages:

Spinal Support:Â Lying on your back promotes spinal alignment and evenly distributes body weight, reducing pressure points.
Acid Reflux Management:Â Elevating the head slightly may help prevent acid reflux symptoms, similar to side sleeping.Â
There is a chance back sleeping can worsen snoring and sleep apnea, as gravity pulls the tongue backward, obstructing the airway. To help make back sleeping work for you:
Choose a softer pillow to support the natural curve of your neck, but don't lift the head too high.
Place a pillow under your knees to relieve strain on the lower back.
Sleep on a firm bed to prevent the hips (often the heaviest part of the body) from sinking too far and causing back pain.
Stomach Sleeping: You're a Rare One

Stomach sleeping is the least common sleep position, but it does offer some benefits:
Reduced Snoring:Â This position can help keep the airway open, minimizing snoring.
Potential Digestive Aid:Â Some people find that sleeping on their stomach aids digestion.
Stomach sleeping can flatten the spine's natural curve, leading to lower back pain and neck strain.
To minimize these risks:
Use a thin pillow—or no pillow at all—to prevent excessive neck strain.
Place a pillow under your hips or abdomen to maintain spinal alignment.
Put a small pillow under the shoulder on the side to which your face is turned. This can ease the strain on the levator scapulae and may lessen the possibility of neck pain.
Sleep on a firm bed for better support.Â
Finding Your Perfect Fit
The best sleeping postion is the one that aligns with your individual needs and preferences. While some may want to train their body to sleep in a new position, most people naturally revert to what their body knows. Instead of forcing change, focus on supporting your body where it is, expecially if you are manging chronic pain or recovering from surgery. Finding a comfortable, neutral position with the right pillow and bostering can be crucial for pain management and improving overall sleep qualtiy.
Experiment with different positions and pillow configurations to find what works best for YOU. Realize that the best sleeping position is the one that aligns with your preferences, pain issues and unique needs.
Additional Tips for Better Sleep and Pain Management
Beyond sleep position, several other factors contribute to sleep quality. Think about adopting these habits for better sleep:

Find the Perfect Pillow: Many companies offer a satisfaction guarantee or a 90-day money-back return policy. Reading reviews or watching YouTube videos can be helpful—you may find someone with a similar issue who has tested a pillow and loved it (or not!).
Create a Comfortable Sleep Environment:Â Keep your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet. Invest in a supportive mattress and pillows suited to your preferred sleep position.
Establish a Consistent Sleep Schedule:Â Going to bed and waking up at the same time every day helps regulate your body's internal clock.
Limit Stimulants Before Bed:Â Steer clear of caffeine and electronic gadgets at least an hour prior to bedtime, as they may disrupt your ability to fall asleep.
Practice Relaxation Techniques:Â Deep breathing or gentle stretching can signal your body that it's time to wind down.
Seek Professional Help if Needed:Â Consider consulting a healthcare professional for personalized recommendations if sleep issues persist despite lifestyle adjustments.
Improving your sleep habits takes time and patience. However, by making small changes such as refining your sleep position, choosing the right bed, the appropriate pillow, and ensuring muscles rest in a neutral or slightly stretched position, you can achieve more restorative sleep and wake up feeling pain-free, renewed and energized.
For additional support in improving sleep, you might also explore wellness practices like infrared sauna sessions, cold plunges, or regular bodywork. These therapies can help reduce pain, improve circulation, and promote deeper relaxation—all of which support better sleep. For more details, check out our previous blogs on recovery tools and techniques to complement your sleep strategy.